WHAT TRIGGERS YOUR EMOTIONS?  (Self Awareness is the key) you must pay attention to your feelings, so you can take responsibility for them by changing your thoughts to more positive thoughts.  Remember sometimes our feelings lie to us, just because you perceive something in your mind does not mean it is true...or that the person meant it the way you perceived it. If you are right you can still tell yourself how to feel and get your peace back.  Change your thinking for the sake of your mental health. Your mental health must be a priority to you.(peace of mind) you Choose. Enjoy the good emotions and acknowledge all of your feelings.  

The strengths that have helped you to succeed are also your greatest emotional triggers when you feel someone is not honoring what makes you special. 

When your brain perceives that someone has taken or plans to take one of these important things away from you, then your emotions are triggered.

You react with anger or fear, then you quickly rationalize your behavior so it makes sense. You may lose trust in the person or situation. You may lose courage or react in a way that could hurt your relationships in the future. 

THE KEY IS TO CATCH YOURSELF REACTING WHEN YOUR EMOTIONS ARE TRIGGERED. 

Then you can discover if the threat is real or not. 

The following list includes some of the most common emotional triggers, meaning you react when you feel as though you aren't getting or will not get one of these things that are very important to you.  

acceptance              respect                 be liked

be understood         be needed             be valued      

be in control            be right                be treated fairly

attention                 comfort                 freedom

peacefulness            balance                  consistency     

order                        variety                    love

safety                     predictability           included

fun                         new challenges          freedom

ONCE AGAIN THE KEY IS SELF AWARENESS WE NEED TO KNOW WHEN AND WHAT HAS TRIGGERED US...AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THINKING THAT WAY.  WE NEED TO THINK BEFORE WE SPEAK, WE NEED TO RESPOND INSTEAD OF REACTING....PAUSE...AND THINK...CHOOSE PEACE....GO FOR A WIN WIN SITUATION..IF POSSIBLE.  

HOW ABOUT COMMUNICATE? NURTURE YOURSELF ALONG THE WAY. YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE STRONG, YOU ARE UNIQUELY YOU EVEN WITH YOUR TEMPER.(FEELINGS, THOUGHTS, SENSATIONS AND IMPULSES. LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY. GIVE IT TO YOURSELF TOO.